I’m sure you have experienced the negative effect when a straw person is on the phone with you or walks into the room. They suck out all the air. They leave you feeling empty, tense, guarded, bad, defeated, doubtful and sometimes even sick. Straw people can be in your family or you work with them. Learn how to love them from a distance. Honor your boundaries to keep out any disrespect, abuse or manipulation.
Recognize when you are surrounded by straw people so you can adapt or take action to maintain your peace, faith, joy and enthusiasm. Never give someone the power to steal your joy or speak negativity and limitation into your life. Don’t allow anyone to take your kindness for weakness.
There is a time to be quiet and there is a time to speak up. There is a time to endure and there is a time to draw the line. Train people how to treat you by not allowing them to suck out all of your joy, peace, time, bank account, faith, confidence, success or self-esteem.
Make the effort to cultivate relationships which add to your life instead of taking away. On my CD I share the major types of “straw people” to avoid. As you learn to discern who the straw types are in your life…
. you can begin to increase your experiences of peace, success, confidence, self-esteem, joy and faith.
. work, love, communicate and cope with difficult people
. or let go of the people who are toxic
This article is an excerpt from the motivational CD “How to Let Go of the Straw People” by the The Self-esteem Dr. Jewel Diamond Taylor.
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