6 TYPES OF BOUNDARIES to KEEP YOUR PEACE OF MIND AND MONEY


Watch out for the “boundary bullies”.

At first, you may feel selfish, embarrassed, stress, or mean when you start to have boundaries.  It will take time and determination.  Protect your self-esteem, time, body, energy, goals, money, and peace of mind.  One day you will thank yourself for finding your voice and value.
1. EMOTIONAL BOUNDARIES
a. I am not comfortable talking about my; past, weight, lifestyle, grief, decisions, surgery,  emotional pain, recent conflict,  job, etc. right now.
b. (In the case of avoiding drama, conflict, or awkwardness…”I will not be able to attend, but thank you for asking me.”)
c. I do not deserve to be treated or talked to like that.
d. Gossip, secrets, drama, trash talk and intense conversations are emotional dumping. I am not your dumping ground.
2. TIME BOUNDARIES

a. I can’t help you right now. I need to stay on schedule and focus. I have some commitments to keep. Is Thursday a good time for you?

b. If you are going to be late, text or call me.

c. I would love to attend, but I have a prior commitment I want to honor.

3. PHYSICAL BOUNDARIES
a. If you need to use my things, please ask first.                                                                                      b. I feel disrespected and uncomfortable, you can’t touch me there.
c. Thank you, but I am uncomfortable hugging or shaking hands.  I’m not ready for intimacy.
4. MONEY BOUNDARIES
a. Because of my money priorities and obligations, I cannot answer your request. I will be praying with you that your needs will be met.

b. If I do choose to help, it is a loan and not a gift.
c. I do not discuss my income with others. I will not ask about yours.

5. RELATIONSHIP BOUNDARIES
a. My relationship with my spouse, children, boo, ex, or parents are not open for discussion.

b. I know you care, but it is my personal business.

6. TOPIC BOUNDARIES
a. I don’t discuss my politics, religion, or personal business here.
b. I don’t think that was funny or appropriate.
written by Jewel Diamond Taylor, aka The Self-esteem Dr.
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Published by Jewel Diamond Taylor

Inspirational Speaker, Author, Life Coach, "The Self-esteem Dr.", cutting edge leading female conference and women's retreat speaker

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