4 tips for holidays to avoid a ChristMESS

Have you ever experienced that uncomfortable chemistry that can occur when you meet your parents or siblings for a holiday get-together? Old conflicts and feelings from your childhood can resurface and create tension.

Whatever the relationship is with parents and siblings, many adults carry unresolved – and painful – memories from their childhood. If people with repressed emotions don’t work through their childhood issues, they often spiral further and further into depression as they get older. And if adults with unresolved childhood problems have children of their own, they pass their trauma on to the next generation and the cycle continues. Blended families, broken relationships, grieving families, painful unresolved memories, trauma, secrets, arguments, exhausted caregiving for a family member, and overspending can create serious consequences and heated arguments over Christmas dinner. The holidays can bring about tense family gatherings and trigger a lot of mixed emotions (e.g. addictions, grief, loneliness, anger, depression, financial shame, stress, overeating, apathy, anxiety). My brief video message offers four (4) battles to be aware of during the holidays to avoid having a ChristMESS.

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Also remember my PowHERfull New Year Kick-off is happening January 22, 2022. It is limited to 50 guests. As of today, 34 registrations have been received. To learn more and register click here

How to GLOW Higher

Be sure to see the beautiful photos at the end of this message. You will see our new location for my PowHERfull New Year Kick-OFF Experience, January 22, 2022.

Raising the vibe…spreading, love, hope, encouragement, empowerment, wellness, alignment with your purpose/gifts, resiliency, compassion, faith, travel, and epic experiences…that is what I was born to do.

My photo on this page was just an ordinary day. I often dress up which lifts up my spirit. I know how to re-energize myself with colors, jewelry, music, getting outdoors, getting up in the morning stretching/deep breathing, drinking water, praying, reviewing my “faith wheel”, sitting on the floor playing with my GRANDchild Codey, calling a friend, I pause and savor priceless moments, watch a favorite movie, and yes shoes. Every day is a special occasion for me. I’m not going to put my happiness and gratitude on lay-away. When I GLOW UP it doesn’t mean my life is trouble-free. I just know how little acts of joy can multiply and generate those happy hormones like serotonin, dopamine, and endorphins. What do you do to lift your energy and faith? Are you waiting until everything is perfect?

This little girl in the video is preparing herself…encouraging herself, and ready to take a leap. She may not be ready to leap, but at least she got in. Life is waiting for many of you to GET IN. You don’t have all the answers right now … but you do need to know WHAT your next step will be ….and just do it. Anger, worry, procrastination, perfectionism, overthinking, and fear are paralyzing.
Life’s journey brings mystery, miracles, pain, joy, beauty, suffering, blessings, lessons, new beginnings, endings, and opportunities. Having faith in the Lord requires trust because you will not have all the details for your journey.  “Trust the Process” is a slogan used by the NBA’s Philadelphia 76ers fans. This slogan was made popular during a tough time for the team, it basically means “things may look bad now, but we have a plan in place to make it better.”

We often misdirect our energy and focus on what was or what is happening in the present. Why not focus on what you want to experience. You have choices and the power to heal and create. But if all of your energy, time, thoughts, and focus are on your past, pain, stress, or present unpleasant experiences … you are only giving those circumstances more power to take over your life. A broken key cannot open a door. You cannot open a new door of blessings, breakthroughs, and ease if you are broken inside. It may be more difficult on some days, but every day live with the intention to remember what you are grateful for. Gratitude is a powerful emotion that can create within you peace, power, optimism, momentum, and magnetism.

check out the location for my PowHERfull New Year Kick-OFF experience Saturday, January 22, 2022, Encino, CA – limited to 50 guests…30 of the 50 registrations are sold. To register, click the below link https://jeweldiamondtaylor.com/2021/12/17/powherfull-new-year-kick-off/

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The Self-esteem Dr. facilitates many “womb room” sessions for women to give birth to; restoration, new possibilities, self-care, mental/emotional wellness, new joy, new life, spiritual breakthroughs, new peace, goals realized, and reJEWELvenation! To book Jewel Diamond Taylor, The Self-esteem Dr. to facilitate a “womb room” for your group, email – JewelMotivates@gmail.com or call 323.964.1736.

PowHERfull New Year Kick-OFF


This is a private experience. Once you register … the address in Encino, CA will be sent to you the week of January 17. Be sure to check your email for updates.

Date – January 22, 2022 Time 11:30 pm – 4:00 PM Plan to arrive between 11:30 – 12 noon for best street parking. This is limited to only 50 women.

For any questions, email – JewelMotivates@gmail.com or call 323.964.1736

No refunds for the event

Open enrollment for the “Diamond INNERversity”

email – JewelMotivates@gmail.com

Enrollment for The Diamond INNERversity will begin in January 2022.

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“I truly appreciate YOU! You have enriched my life immensely for over 30 years and counting! You have helped me overcome many issues in my life!” – Marlene Dyce

“I get reJEWELvenated every time I’m listening to your messages of inspiration, hope, faith, and self-esteem. Thank you so much Dr. Jewel.” – J. Jackson

“Thank you for your LeadHERship classes and your relationship workshops. I just wanted to say thank you for your love, wisdom and support. You Rock Jewel Diamond Taylor. Because of you, I am a better mother, wife, sister, friend and I am able to help other women heal, because of you, I am a better teacher. I love you Jewel. ” ~ JoAnn Mitchell

“I thank the Most High for Women on the Grow. Jewel, I thank you for your words of wisdom and reminding me … no matter what to stay in the light.” – Teresa Brown

” Thank you Jewel Diamond Taylor for blessing my spirit today. I’m on FULL” – Diana Layne-White

“We received a powerfull message that will surely open doors to healing.” – Beverly Porter

” I enjoyed the great content you provided today at The Filing Station. Very uplifting. Thank you for your dynamic leadership and teaching.” – Michelle Moore Bell

“You preached today!!!” – Valerie Vaultz

“Every session is so interesting, a blessing, and so inspiring! It just keeps better with each new Sunday! I love my Filling Station Experience! Thank you. – Joy Lewis

“Jewel the filling station was such a blessing today!” – Tracy Edmonson

“Always a powerful blessing.” – Louida Shaw

“If you’re looking for a way to make a tax deductible donation before the year ends, consider my personal favorite nonprofit organization, 𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄, founded by 𝘑𝘦𝘸𝘦𝘭 𝘋𝘪𝘢𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘛𝘢𝘺𝘭𝘰𝘳. This organization has impacted my life in so many enriching ways and it is part of my monthly commitment to my SelfCare and why I make a recurring donation each month!!” – Yetta Young ⁣

⁣If you are a champion of women’s wellness on all levels: Emotionally , Spiritually, Mentally, Financially – consider 𝗪𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄 for your tax-deductible donations which is a resource for thousands of women over the years who experience adversity (i.e. homeless, depression, grief, trauma, single parenting, caregiving exhaustion, domestic abuse, COVID, breast cancer, unemployment, etc.). You moved me to tears with your love, giving, and compassion!!! For those who wish to add your support, you can go to www.WomenOnTheGrow.org and donate any amount and any time or become a monthly sister $ower. Or text 213.732.3233 and enter the amount you wish to donate and hit send.

Women On The Grow Tribe Holiday GatHERing

We usually have our holiday gathering at a hotel and recent years in the private home of a dear sisterfriend in Pasadena. Her home is not available this year.

This year we are renting an AirBNB home in the city of Downey, CA. 12 noon, Saturday, December 4, 2021 because it is more intimate than a hotel. Since we will be incurring the cost of the home rental, tables, chairs, and food, the cost per person is $45.

We hope you will be able to join us for our end-of-the-year time of food, fellowship, and gratitude. It is always so healing and so much fun to spend time togetHER!!!!!

We will be ready to receive our Tribe sisterqueens 12 noon, Saturday, December 4, 2021. The AirBNB policy is to release the address 3 days before we enter. If you plan to attend, BE SURE TO CHECK YOUR EMAIL after December 1 to receive the address in the city of Downey, CA. Any questions, email Wotgrow@gmail.com.

Click this link to purchase your ticket – $45 per person

Focus Affirmation Cards

Could you use a powerful tool in your success tool kit to achieve your goals?

Now you can download and print your own set of 24 “ReJEWELvenation FOCUS Cards”. The pdf file will be sent to your email address to downland and print on card stock on your own computer and cut OR local print shop like OfficeMax.

Print them for yourself and/or mail encouragement cards to your family and friends, post on your refrigerator, place in your favorite book, place in your wallet. tape to your laptop, etc.

Get focused on what you want to manifest and show up in your life. This limited holiday special is only $10.

Yes Jewel…send my reJEWELvenation FOCUS Cards today!!!

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The Self-esteem Dr. – Womb Room Experience

I was born for this! In my signature “womb rooms” women are healed from emotional pain, procrastination, silent screams, stillborn dreams, broken relationships, past trauma, faith fatigue, and limited thinking.

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Saturday, October 30, I will be hosting another “womb room”, my I.C.U. Program, in Palos Verdes for caregivers stressed out, feeling exhausted, isolated, grieving, depressed, and financially burdened.

If you would like to invite The Self-esteem Dr. to facilitate a “womb room” session for your group to give birth to; restoration, new possibilities, self-care, mental/emotional wellness, new joy, new life, spiritual breakthroughs, new peace, goals realized, and reJEWELvenation!

email JewelMotivates@gmail.com

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Break this stronghold

In my coaching and counseling sessions I’m hearing a lot of conversations from women who are feeling unworthy, unhappy, depressed, and questioning their lives. Social media posts of weddings, travel vacations, books sales, events, cars, people booed-up, new homes, college graduates, entrepreneurs, marriages, proposals, weight loss, clothes, eyelashes, shoes, etc. are creating a new phenomena of toxic comparison. The pressure to perform and produce to keep up and cover up a sense of “not enoughness” is leading to relationship and marriage breakups, high debt, multiple harmful surgeries, depression, and self-esteem crash and burns.

With the overexposure of social media and people posting their managed image and often exaggerated posts…we are seeing a dramatic increase of people feeling inadequate, stressed, and in high-gear driven to have more and do more.

One must ask these questions. 1) Is what I’m seeing authentic and real? 2) If it is, why am I unable to be happy for other people’s success? 3) Am I realizing I am insecure and need to work on my personal growth? 4) Do I live in fear, lack, and jealousy? 5) Am I practicing good habits of productivity or procrastination? 6) Am I more concerned about what other people think and strive for perfection instead of progress? 7) If what I am coveting is real, am I willing to sacrifice, work, study, and cope with the responsibility that comes with any new level of well-being, satisfaction, success? Social media tends to show the success and finish line… but not show the back story… the mess, the struggle, the heart ache, losses, the setbacks and attacks, the sacrifice, the bumps, bruises, and the obstacles that were behind the posted photos.

The feelings of comparison is spreading like a cancer and steals a person’s peace, gratitude, contentment, joy, and self-esteem.


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