I need Jewel’s Life Coaching

Here are some signs you would benefit from having Jewel Diamond Taylor offer you life coaching:
 
. you’re not happy with your current life situation, not sure where to start (feeling stuck)
. you have trouble staying motivated
. your heart was broken and it stole your joy and self-motivation
. you desire a breakthrough in your confidence and momentum to move forward with your goals
. your faith, self-esteem and confidence have been shaken because of the shifts, storms
  and stress in  your life
. you lack support from family and friends and need a safe place to think and plan out loud
. you have goals, but find it hard to keep on track, resulting into procrastination
. you have something important in your life that you keep thinking about, but never take
   any action
. you are isolated and need to align with the right connections and resources to grow in
  your goals, ministry, leadership, business, personal life, purpose and faith.
 
Everyone has different needs and different definitions of a “life coach.”
As a popular in-demand life coach, Jewel Diamond Taylor is multi-faceted (e.g. accountability coach, advisor, supportive listener, resource center, strategist to support you in achieving a goal, sounding board, life makeover, spiritual exhorter to build up your faith, hope and life purpose, counselor for emotional wellness and resiliency after a life change (divorce, layoff, disappointments, stress, feeling stuck, etc.).  How would you like the Self-esteem Dr. Jewel Diamond Taylor to support you at this time?

 

Read Testimonies…

” Jewel is an extremely astute coach, mentor, listener and guide. I had an initial Skype session with Jewel some time back. Since then I have aimed to put in to practice the clear steps she advised me to look at and work on. However, recently I hit a wall, and had an epiphany of what lay at the heart of the majority of my very long standing ‘ negative – self’mindset issues and this resulting suppressant to reach the potential God is calling me to. I knew how deeply significant this was for me and that I’d arrived at a clear watershed in my life. I immediately knew I needed to speak with Jewel. I knew she would read my situation, understand and discern with incisive authority, speaking courage, truth, honour and measured calm in the way that was necessary and fully appropriate to me. I can’t recommend her highly enough. If you are really serious in turning your damaged mindsets round in your life for good so you can move on permanently speak with Jewel to get you on the right path and beyond. Jewel is the total package and genuine spirit-filled- sent article for those of us who need genuine encouragement and a restoration of true self worth.” – Emily, The United Kingdom

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kimberly williams 2 (1)I had an amazing “author and speaking coaching session” with author and motivational speaker Jewel Diamond Taylor.  Anyone who aspires to go to the next level, you must have a mentor or a personal development coach.  It’s wonderful when you meet someone that like you on the next level and can give you guidance as well as give you the ingredients to success!  Thank you Jewel for your keen insight, Godly wisdom and superb road map for success and serving the Kingdom.” Kimberly Williams (speaker and author), Founder of the Matriarch Society

“Since I have joined Jewel Diamond Taylor’s mentoring class my Vision has gone to another level. I thank God for Mrs Jewel Diamond Taylor she’s awesome.” – Emertha Jones

My dear beloved Life Coach Jewel: “I wanted to share the fruits of your love as my coach.  I couldn’t see the vision and looked down and wanted to give up and you helped lift my head to the Lord from whom ALL my help comes from. From that day in 1993, when I felt my life was not worth living and I contemplated suicide you came into my life via email. God dispatched you as my Angel to lead, guide and encourage me. With all your books, CDs, and individual coaching over the past 24 years I am humbled and honored to share my endeavors with you.  I will be retiring from my job in Sept 2016. With your coaching and inspiration along with the Holy Spirit I have two businesses that God birth into my spirit last year around this time. I’m forever grateful for you my Angel. Once I’m retired I can’t wait to attend one of your retreats. Love you with all my hear mind and spirit.” ~ Charmaine (Maryland).

I had a great life coaching session with a new client Emily from the U.K. London. We had our 90 minute session via skype. I thank her for sharing her positive feedback below.
“Hello Jewel… Just to thank you very much for our session together.  I found it totally edifying. Lots of notes and things to ruminate, work, reflect and make friends with myself on. I already feel like I am on a re-defined path of growth, like you have switched on my re-set button. Crucially though without being knocked sideways, radically changing my vision or what I feel God has been nudging and encouraging me towards. It just means navigating the path I will know more what to tune into, in order to maintain stamina and clarity, plus nurse any dispiriting days…which are inevitable as well as the good. I would love to have another session soon.” Warmly, Emily

“I took advantage of this and it was by far one of the best experiences/ coaching session ever. I was very touched that Mrs. Taylor ended our coaching session in Prayer not to mention I felt like a conqueror afterwards. I’m in desperate need of another coaching session and hopefully I can secure of of the available slots. Thank you!!” Wendy Reed, California
“My decision to meet with Jewel as a Life Coach was a divine life changing decision. Jewel was so easy to talk to and I instantly felt comfortable enough to open up and share things that I had not shared before. She truly understood me which meant so much. The nuggets of wisdom that I walked away with I will forever treasure. She is truly an anointed Woman of God.” – B. W. (California)

“I just wanted to take a minute to share with you the force of nature that is Jewel Diamond Taylor. I first met Jewel back in the 90’s when she was a keynote speaker for African American Tour, a national tour featuring powerhouse African American women whose mission was to inspire and empower. Jewel was so awesome that she was asked to speak in every city for the many years that the tour ran. I was immediately captivated, and have followed her ever since. I’ve gone to her conferences and workshops in different states. I get her e-newsletters. I bought her books. Given her CD’s as gifts. Engaged her to facilitate our women’s weekend retreats (five times over the last 20 years, to date). and regularly visit her website. All are inspiriting and empowering.   What sets Jewel apart is her empathy, humor, style, insight, and spirit. Jewel excels at getting to the heart of the matter, and challenging women to take risks and embrace change. Jewel has taught me to see challenges as opportunities. She is unafraid to share her own testimony, and does so with grace, humility, and humor. Jewel has a wealth of information, and communicates it in a style that is both engaging and relatable. She doesn’t preach. She empowers! Jewel’s life-strategies are life-changing! She is that good!” ~ Roxanne Joy Johnson, New York
“I am a great fan of Jewel Diamond Taylor. She is a genius when it comes down to helping others. Her tremendous life coaching skills have been so helpful in helping me and others to deal with life, family situations and even MY marriage. She empowers me and so many others with her wealth of knowledge and wisdom that she spreads. ~ Kem Morris

Jewel Diamond Taylor, Motivator, Speaker, Life Coach, Author, Supreme Woman of God, what else can I say? Truly my first session with Jewel was an appointment ordained by God. Jewel is truly gifted in her profession and anointed by God. I would have never imagined that I would have an opportunity to work with Jewel from a one-on-one coaching perspective. All I can say is God opened the door. My first session was very informative and caused me to do some heartfelt soul searching. I thank God for Jewel’s book, “You Deserve More” because it gave me a voice around what I could not say of did not know how to say. I could relate to everything in the book.  I would strongly recommend that purchase. Make an investment in yourself.  During my session with Jewel, she asked probing questions with genuineness and sincerity to understand my expectations and needs. She was very transparent in sharing her experiences which assisted me in expressing and communicating what I was looking to change and improve. Jewel was empathetic and focused on ensuring I pursue my best self in all areas, personally, emotionally, professionally, spiritually, and financially.  The most amazing part of this experience was the very next morning after the session, I googled a particular topic on joy and so many of the things that Jewel discussed during my session were confirmed by this article that I searched. I don’t call this luck, I call that an anointed and divine session that God had orchestrated from the time I was being formed in my mother’s womb. Jewel, thank you for a wonderful first session. I look forward to many more. To those of you that are going through any challenge or obstacle, love yourself, invest in yourself because YOU are worth it. Be Blessed and as Jewel says, “Stay In The Light”. ~ Renee (Delaware)

“I could not afford some other women coaches that I researched, but I’m glad I found Dr. Jewel because she is affordable but also very knowledgeable, helpful and spiritually grounded. She really understands women’s issues. She is a wife, mother, sister, entrepreneur, minister and experienced depression and grief after losing her Mother and son to cancer. I felt very comfortable opening up my heart to her about my issues. She taught me that transparency leads to a triumph victory of healing. Thank you Dr. Jewel!” ~ Deborah E. in Dallas, TX
“All I can say is “WOW”! I thought it would be embarrassing or useless to have counseling. I was so wrong. My phone sessions with Dr. Jewel have been life-changing. So glad I found her web site and picked up the phone.” ~ Nikki, Oakland, CA

“Now that I am away from family, friends and my community stationed in Japan, I needed emotional support to cope with change. Thank you so much Jewel for offering your coaching services by SKYPE which helped to settle my spirit and regain my focus. God Bless you!” ~ Sandra B. – JAPAN

 

 

The Self-esteem Dr. Reveals 5 Things That Keep You Stuck

We don’t like to lose control, lose an argument or lose the people, beliefs, lifestyle and things that make us feel safe, powerful, needed and loved.

baby poutAs a adults, we can exhibit child-like responses and pout feeling annoyed, angry or sad when we don’t get our way or feel misunderstood.  Others may become depressed or exhibit default impulsive behaviors like blaming others or excessive shopping, eating or drinking.

Family and relationships mean so much to me.  As a wife, mother, big sister, friend, auntie, Godmother, etc.  I know that I can worry too much about the people I love.  I’m writing this because I realized that whenever my life got crazy, sad or hurtful, I shifted from too much shopping  to another unhealthy way of coping.  I began to notice that I would stare at the ceiling ruminating.  The word “ruminate” derives from the Latin for chewing cud.  Whenever we get stuck repeatedly thinking about a stressful situation, we are ruminating.  The habit of ruminating is (chewing) turning the matter over and over and over again in our mind.  It’s like rewinding the tape and playing it again and again.

. Where did I go wrong?                    . Why doesn’t he/she act right?

. Why is this happening to me?       . What could I have said or done differently?

. How can I fix this?                           . How can I make him/her love me back?

. When will they listen to me?         . What can I do to prove my love/worthiness?

I used play and rewind repeatedly my favorite songs by the Whispers, Luther, Kem, Maze or BeBe Winans.  I kept them in rotation learning every word allowing my mind and emotions to drift and escape from my reality.

Having the blessed opportunity to inspire and help others, has also given me the opportunity to learn about myself.  Helping and healing myself and others requires the courage to tell the truth and become aware of our default coping behaviors.  We can reduce our stress and be more resilient from setbacks as we learn to cope in healthy ways.

woman waitingI was inspired to write this blog today because I caught myself staring at the ceiling again ruminating about several situations in my life where I feel sad, where I feel misunderstood and one where I feel I have no control to stop a loved one’s pain.  Ruminating eats away at your confidence, faith, self-esteem, peace of mind, gratitude and ability to solve or cope with life situations.  I have read studies that when men ruminate (overthink) a situation, they are more likely to turn to alcohol or drugs.

Author Dr. Susan Nolen-Hoeksema states that women are significantly more likely than men to fall into overthinking and depression.  As women, we are more likely to analyze and think too much more about relationships than men.  Food, alcohol and depression creates a “Toxic Triangle” that can destroy your faith, self-esteem, relationships and emotional/mental health.

Let me be your cautionary tale if you find yourself stuck overthinking about something or someone.  I find there are at least five (5) emotional traps to avoid.   They are emotional quicksand that will pull you down into a dark place of guilt, shame, low-self-esteem, self-loathing, sickness, doubt, debt, drama, dysfunction, defeat and depression.

I’m learning everyday to recognize my triggers, body language, default thinking and old tapes in my head that I have to fix, rescue, control, love, be accepted/understood or succeed in every situation.  Anything in excess is unhealthy. These are the 5 “Too Much” traps to moderate and pray for wisdom, discernment, courage and discipline.

1) over think

2) over worry

3) over procrastinate

4) over do things (e.g. give too much, stay too busy, signing up for too many projects, feeling you have to fix, rescue or help others – too accommodating, people pleasing)

5) impulsive (overeat, over drink, over spending)

by Jewel Diamond Taylor, http://www.DoNotGiveUp.net

Success Declaration

Your words have power!  As a man or woman thinketh…so is he(she).  What you think about…you can bring about.

Your prescription of pearls of wisdom today from the Self-esteem Dr. is to read the “I AM Success Declaration” as least twice a day.   In case of an emergency (doubt, fear or procrastination), I suggest you read it 3 times a day.   The refills on this prescription are unlimited.   Read more in my e-book  Heal Your Mind and Your Behind Will Follow.   positive pearls

Click here to read the popular  “I AM Success Declaration”   which has taken the world by storm.  It is my most popular download request from my web site. ~ Jewel Diamond Taylor, The Self-esteem Dr.  www.DoNotGiveUp.net

Do You Have a Mentor?

Click the link below to read about our awesome First Lady Michelle Obama.

She is teaching about the importance of mentoring.    The lack of mentoring is on my list of the 10 Success Power Points to Work On.

If these 10 points are ignored, you will can never reach your full potential for success, health and purposeful living.   I painfully paid the price of learning 10 major areas in our lives that require your attention, wisdom and growth.  You can avoid losing my money, time and opportunities.  I share these pearls of wisdom with you on my CD.

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http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/glamour-honors-michelle-obama-as-mentor-in-chief-532535/

Extreme Heart Makeover

After a long season of loss, betrayal, bitterness, abuse, divorce or loneliness one’s heart can become either too hard or too fragile, too closed or too open.

I find in my travels, speaking and counseling that far too many women suffer extreme heart issues.  The emotional pendulum swings from one end of extreme hardness or being extremely needy, desperate and naive. There are those extremely independent (“I don’t need any one)…all the way to the other extreme mindset of being too dependent. If you are afraid of being alone or think a relationship validates you and makes you whole, you could have a relationship addiction. Unfortunately I see this all too often.

When your self-esteem is healthy, the emotional pendulum swings in the middle because of healing, balance, prayer and self-awareness.  Open your eyes and see your real worth and beauty in the mirror.  Get balance in your life.   Seek advice help from the wise women in your life.  Pour all that misguided and untapped passion into your goals, purpose and dreams.  Begin to transform your thinking to believe you can take care of yourself.  If you think a man can save you, you are setting yourself up for an unhappy,  abusive and dominating relationship. You can do good all by yourself until the Lord sends the right one baby!

When you both bring something to the table, your chances for harmony, respect, love and common goals are increased.  But if you get into a relationship feeling empty and expect some one to fill your cup, you are giving away all of your power, value and self-worth.

I write in my book, “Follow Your Heart But Take Your Brain With You”  that the scent of a woman is powerful.  Dogs can smell desperation, neediness, immaturity and weakness.  A woman with self-esteem has the aroma of confidence, faith and self-worth.

When your heart is smart you can avoid the pitfalls, problems and pain of living in a chaotic, drama filled, sitting by phone, life on hold and stressful world.

You can’t make someone love you or make someone stay.  If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and “a life,” you won’t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.

Don’t allow other people to control, manipulate or validate your existence. Value your dreams, body, goals, time and peace of mind.  If you don’t… no one else will.  Learn how to discern between lust, like and love.  Learn how to love smart.  Don’t allow your heart to be attacked by abusers and losers.

As you heal your heart of illusions, grudges, fantasies, desperation and bitterness, your opportunities increase to have a righteous relationship.

As the Self-esteem Dr. I have performed many heart makeovers and CPR to help women breathe again.

Read Proverb 23:7 and remember that as a man(woman) thinketh, so is he(she).  This powerful teaching reminds us that  right thinking begins with the words we say to ourselves.  If you think in your heart that you are not worthy…not pretty…not loving…not blessed…not qualified…then you will have more that in your life. Begin to speak and think in your heart that you are qualified, beautiful, divine, blessed, grateful, anointed and loved. Wear the sweet aroma of self-esteem, confidence and a daughter of the Most High God. “Keep your heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life” – Proverbs 4: 23

by Jewel Diamond Taylor, The Self-esteem Dr., Author, Conference Speaker, Women’s Retreat Leader, Life Coach, Founder of Women on the Grow

To contact Jewel or call 323.964.1736

e-mail –  JewelMotivates@gmail.com