6 TYPES OF BOUNDARIES to KEEP YOUR PEACE OF MIND AND MONEY

Watch out for the “boundary bullies”. At first, you may feel selfish, embarrassed, stress, or mean when you start to have boundaries.  It will take time and determination.  Protect your self-esteem, time, body, energy, goals, money, and peace of mind.  One day you will thank yourself for finding your voice and value. 1. EMOTIONAL BOUNDARIESContinue reading “6 TYPES OF BOUNDARIES to KEEP YOUR PEACE OF MIND AND MONEY”

Momma didn’t believe me

RECENT COUNSELING SESSION WITH THE SELF-ESTEEM DR. CALLER: Jewel I am used to giving and showing up for others but I find it difficult to let others in and see my hurts. JEWEL: Unfortunately, many women like you are used to being the giver and ignoring their own needs. How are you feeling? What shallContinue reading “Momma didn’t believe me”

What triggers you?

QUESTION: Why do you emphasize teaching emotional health in your talks, books, and coaching/counseling? ANSWER: Many triggers that are not understood or healed sets off an old memory. These triggers can sabotage your relationships, job, marriage, goals, maturity, peace of mind, and create addictions. We have a tape of everything and anything in our brainContinue reading “What triggers you?”

Do you ever feel like you don’t fit in?

“Are you introverted? Are you the hyper one or do you feel social activities are exhausting? Are you the talker or the quiet one? Are you fine staying home or are you a social butterfly? Do you try too hard to fit in? Do you feel out of touch with the people you work with? Continue reading “Do you ever feel like you don’t fit in?”

Where does it hurt?

Where does it hurt?  That’s the question the doctor usually asks when you come to be healed of your back ache, head ache, muscle pain, heart problems, high blood pressure, weight issues or depression? Your emotional and physical body are one. Your body holds memories, emotions, and unresolved issues. You probably have feelings that areContinue reading “Where does it hurt?”

I’m done!!!!!

When you are feeling agitated, sad, mad, or hurt…ask yourself “What is REALLY going on?” The real answer may surprise you. You may just be tired, lonely, sick, feeling ashamed or stretched to your limit. How often do you take out your frustrations on the wrong person, your closest target? How often do you makeContinue reading “I’m done!!!!!”

This story of abuse and low self-esteem is why I offer counseling and coaching

Linda has always been the unofficial care giver in any relationship. It’s always been about the other person. She has continually put her own needs last. She neglects her own appearance, and self-care, turns down invitations for social activities and feels she has no voice or power to make decisions. Linda never gained her ownContinue reading “This story of abuse and low self-esteem is why I offer counseling and coaching”

Know when to say “no”

“Be careful.  Like a fish caught in a net, you can become entangled in a toxic relationship, trying to support or fix someone else’s problems. Some people are more loyal and trapped in their story and identity of victimization more than they are open to experience healing, restoration, and peace. You may find yourself sayingContinue reading “Know when to say “no””